the littlest things

We want a lot of things. Ok let me narrow this down. We want or expect a lot from our partners. Especially from the one you have (in my case, crazy) thoughts walking down the aisle with. We really expect a lot. (quit saying no, it's the truth and you know it)

The media has changed our mindsets over time with advertisements, movies, prints and music. We start to emote, worry, sulk, frustrate over things that we can't have. We began to wonder why can that lead actress end up with a prince and I can't? I want that happy ending too. But can I? So you start wishing and your wish list gets too damn fuckin' long.

What do you expect from your man? The 5Cs? That expensive car? The kind that jumps infront of a train for you? Take a bullet for you? What do you expect from your man?

I used to expect a lot from my man because I thought I was in the position to demand. But when life takes place and things happen, you gradually demand less and modify your list.

Couple hours ago I sat down and I thought about what I really want in my man. It used to be a long list but now it has come to wanting a man who's responsible for his own life, includes me in his plans, hold basic conversations with me everyday, make time for me when he can and most importantly place me close to his heart.

Now, realistically go think about what you expect from your partner. If the first thing that comes to your mind is - he/she must earn twice as much as you then you really haven't seen the worst or you haven't really love.

Good night, y'all. Have a great week ahead!

We were always just that close

This song reminded me of you.
Sometimes you make me feel so weak.




I'm not in any position to give any advice, but there's one thing I know - In every relationship, you must communicate. Not just with words but with actions from the heart. You may be sleeping with the same person on the same bed every night but if you heart's not there for embrace, it's never gonna be there no matter how many nights you wait.

This is just one of the songs I like from Rihanna's latest album "Loud". Maybe I'll review it some time but tonight I just want to cave in.

On a side note, I'm really lusting for a pair of Dr. Martens.

Rumour has it

In reference to my previous post 2 days back, found something really interesting online! Seriously, take this with a pinch of salt but you've to agree some of them really make sense. Don't get too lost in translation with ya feelings for that asshole. When I say you deserve better, you really deserve better.

Time & Relationships

Just two days ago I heard 1 of the most ridiculous excuses to break up in a relationship: I've no time.

Huh? Am I hearing it right? You have no time?

Let me just put this straight up: I don't get it. How can that ever be a reason for a break up? Here's the thing, if you've no time for a relationship, how come you have time for games, update your social life on the internet or stalk other people's lives on social media?

What bollocks.

Life is such - there shouldn't be grey areas not unless you created them yourself.

Be responsible for your relationships - Communicate, make time and have faith.


PS: I still love my buddy very much though I hate him for his truckload of lame excuses

Of relationships and other stuff

This is how I describe my love life.

I don't want to be that person yakking away about how much I want to be involved in your life.

What Men Want

It’s easy to talk about these types of things in absolutes. Easier than to admit that I don’t know, some men themselves don’t know, that individuals are not quantifiable items like red bricks or jars of beans.

So honestly, I don't know what Men want. Do you?

I can never be the ideal kinda girl. I have cellulite. I snore when I sleep. I laugh way too loud. I misinterpret things I don't understand. I don't know what to say at the right time. I laugh at you in the face when you got your heart broken. I can never be your ideal kind of girl.

These absolutes really boggle me to the skull of my brain. I try not to let them get anywhere near my heart, not even the left wall. Everyday we wake up trying to be someone else. Someone people would approve of. Someone people would understand. Someone people would like.

Today I painted my left big toe a total different shade of red unlike the rest and only on the top (because it fricken chipped!!!!!!!!!!!!!). Would a man like that in a woman? The randomness, the inconsistency, the irregularities, the fuck ups...

Anyway, have a good Tuesday.
You know you have all my love because you're still reading.





“We can hold a lot of ideas. We can hold a lot of grief. We can wonder if our lives might contain that other thing, just for a moment. Thought is the wrong word. Thought implies intention, which it should not.”

—	Ander Monson, “Weep No More Over This Event”

Random Monday

So. There's this boy.

He probably doesn't know that I feel all warm and fuzzy when he's around.

He probably doesn't know I make mental notes of anything he's said before.

So..............

Empty hearts are better left unspoken

So after your boyfriend BIT you and punched you in the face and then dedicated this song to you....



... how does it feel, Rihanna?

Girls and Shopping *beams!*

.. I know, right?

Haha, I get very excited when I see an interesting article.

Read it here: http://timothytiah.blogspot.com/2009/10/how-to-follow-your-gf-shopping.html

Yes, you're reading it right. This is a Men's guide to shopping with their girlfriends! I find it absurdly interesting because do men really need such a guide? Is shopping with your girlfriends such a pain you actually need a 'Dummies guide' to get yourself through it? Ha, interesting. Very much.

Here's my take on shopping with your girlfriends, fellas. So listen up.

Trust me, you don't need a guide or steps to please your girl. Just understand this very important point: Girls look good for boys. Your girlfriend wants to look good for you. She can have 10001 excuses to buy a new pair of shoes, a new bag or a new dress.. but ultimately, she WANTS you to think she looks good enough for you. Yes boys, it is that simple.

If you try to go through the process with a almost-bitter smile, giving not-even-trying comments like - 'Yeah, it's nice", you're not going to make it out alive. This is how a girl's mind work: If you don't care, she gets upset at you for not caring because she feels she's doing all of these for you. She wouldn't want to put you through this torture, but she feels because she's doing it all for you, you should have a say! So, practice to have a say, have an opinion. We don't see you having a problem with opinions about the latest hike in petrol prices, crap food they serve in the hawkers near your place..

If you can comment on how tight an ass this hot babe in a short mini skirt who just walked by, I'm sure you can afford to give your 2 cents on how your girlfriend look in that dress. Or even 1 cent.

I'll probably be writing about booties in my next update. Maybe tonight!

Have a good weekend!

PS: LC made me say he's has master the art of shopping with women. Girls, what are you waiting for?